Feeling Safe on Your Spiritual Journey

Beth Hewitt: 00:00:00

Good morning, Mel. Good morning, Beth. How are you today? I'm good,

Beth Hewitt: 00:00:04

thank you. What does it say on your cup? It says, the future is in

Melissa Amos: 00:00:06

your hands. Oh, the future is tea.

Beth Hewitt: 00:00:10

I love that. I don't. What's my mug? My mug just says, world's best

Beth Hewitt: 00:00:14

nephew. So there's nothing profound going on in that. In that cup. Well, maybe you're

Melissa Amos: 00:00:18

tapping into a past life thing

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somewhere. So what's been going on with you? You've been busy with your

Beth Hewitt: 00:00:25

challenge last week. Yes, I've been busy. It was

Melissa Amos: 00:00:29

incredible just being with all of these people

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who are on various stages of their spiritual

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journey and helping them really understand

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how and why. And what about tapping into the intuition

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and keeping the energy clear and understanding that we

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do have this higher force or higher power or

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higher knowing and it is available to all of us and we don't need, like,

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special. We all have the special gifts and special talents. And it was one of

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those weeks that every single day the same card came

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up. Oh, I love it when that happens. What was the card? It's

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such a good card and it's still here. I kept it out. It

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is safe for you to shine. Oh, that's a nice card. And

Beth Hewitt: 00:01:13

that's a message I think everybody needs to hear. Yeah. More

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than once. So I'm glad that it came out every single day. Yeah. Interesting.

Melissa Amos: 00:01:21

Maybe we can dive into that today because I think it's an important topic. But

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before we do, how have you been safely shining

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just going through the. Throes of being on top of

Beth Hewitt: 00:01:32

business. Really? Yeah. Nothing to

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massively report back on. Shining my light, doing my thing.

Melissa Amos: 00:01:39

And, you know, this is what happens when we find that level of

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safety that we can just go and be and don't feel that we

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have to control everything and have

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everything, all of our ducks in a row and make sure that everything is good.

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Because I know for me, when I so say

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this, this five day practice, it's the 6th time I've run it

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now. And I remember the first two, three

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times just being like, oh, my God, I've got so

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much I need to do. And, like, just being really in my head.

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And every morning I made myself go to yoga. Like, every time I'm like,

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every day I'm going to go and I would go in there and I'd just

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be there with my hands on my head just going, just calm down. Just get

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in your body. Just get in your body. Just get in your body. Because those

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first few times, I suppose there was an unknown.

Beth Hewitt: 00:02:29

Yeah. This has been over the last three years or so. And this time it

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was very different. This time it was like, yep, it's

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all okay. It's all going to be all right. If some weird tech

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thing, like the wrong task went up one day, it's fine,

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doesn't matter. Right? Yeah, right. It's perfect.

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Trusting that things are as they are and being organized, you've got to be. I

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didn't just wake up in the morning, like, what, today, you've still got to be

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organized. But this message of feeling

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safe in order to come out and do your thing is so important. I

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think it's something that we don't cover all the time

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in, whether that's psychic work, intuitive work,

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mediumship work, or even setting up your own

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business work. Yeah, I absolutely agree

Beth Hewitt: 00:03:17

that we don't really talk about not just

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being safe, but just that it's okay to be ourselves and

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that in us just shining our light, we are paving the way for other

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people to do the same. So I definitely think it's something

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that we need to talk more and more about, and I wonder

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why that is. I think we're brought up as stay humble, don't brag,

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that's big headed, that kind of thing. And so we forget to pat ourselves on

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the back, but we do these amazing things and we might do them

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just a one time thing. It could be like, graduate from university or whatever that

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thing is, and then we never celebrate that again. You know, we have a picture

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taken with a scroll and as family, and then it's on the mantelpiece, but then

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we never really, unless you're in a job interview or something or somebody's reading it

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on your cv, we're not really reliving that achievement. And I

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think we should remember how amazing we

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are often, and we should continue to shine our light and share our

Beth Hewitt: 00:04:10

message and repeat our message for new people to hear and new people to

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be inspired by. So I love that card. Came out lots of times last

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week. It was a theme. So for me,

Melissa Amos: 00:04:22

when I'm talking about intuition and connecting with these higher

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powers, one of the days, one of the subjects we talk about

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is energy, hygiene and energy management and having this, knowing that

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we are grounded, we are connected and we're protected.

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And as long as we're those things, we can start to feel open. And

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one of the, one of the members of the group, she'd been in the practice

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a few times, got various information,

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but she said, I'm coming again. And it's not necessarily worked for me. In the

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past and I don't know. And she joined the vip group, so we had some

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conversations and when I dug into it with

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her, it's because she didn't feel safe. Something happened and

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I can't go back there. And so we just went into that and found another

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way that we can safely find

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that connection. And how we did it was

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rather than sitting and waiting for an intuitive. So we work

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on the spirit guides rather than sitting and waiting for this.

Melissa Amos: 00:05:21

I don't know what voice in our. Head, come in, do

Beth Hewitt: 00:05:25

this. Rather than that. We spoke about. What about,

Melissa Amos: 00:05:28

if you tell your guide, don't expect to listen. Don't

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bring them into your space straight away. Just call on them.

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Say, thank you for being here. I know that you're here to help me.

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What I would love for you to do is, or what I'd really like from

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you is. And so that we can start to set the parameters. Cause our

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guidance team isn't here, tell us what to do, but if we

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say to the guidance team, tell us what to do, we're giving it an

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instruction that it may, you know, they

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want to reply and they want to help us, but I think we've been asking

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them the wrong questions. So by really pouring our energy

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into, well, actually, what is it? Why do I want this relationship with you?

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How is it that you're going to help me? And in what way

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do I want you to help me? I don't want an

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apparition to come and appear in my room

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or something to fly off the wall. That's not what I want. Although

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that would be quite.

Melissa Amos: 00:06:27

Oh, okay, you're here. Thank you. And so we began to set

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that energy, I said, and then just get your pen and paper out and start

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writing. And she received the most beautiful message from her higher

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self because that's who she felt safe with, her higher self, rather than a spirit

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guide. My higher self is part of our guidance team.

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And it was, it was incredible because I know for me, in

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therapy work, that's number one. You could have the

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best techniques in the whole wide world, but if your client doesn't feel safe, nothing's

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going to happen. It's the same with this work.

Beth Hewitt: 00:06:59

Yeah. And do you think we often put

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intuition or spirit guides or higher

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power almost like above us, like it's a.

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Almost like it's a. Better than us, it knows more than us, it's more than

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we are without realizing that it's just part

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of us. It's part of the whole. And I

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think maybe that's sometimes why it feels a little bit

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out of reach. Like I'm almost like, not good enough to receive that.

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Or instead of, I love that you approached

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it from setting that intention of, I want you to come in and I want

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to work with you. And this is what we can be working on, rather than

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expecting that higher power to be the thing

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that gives you the answer to everything because

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it's external to us or because we view it as external or separate or

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whatever, when actually it's us. If we set the intention, if

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we decide how we want the day to go or the life to

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go or the message that we receive, then

Beth Hewitt: 00:08:02

we're loosely taking back the reins. We're picking up those reins and

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saying, I'm in control. Not in a control freak way, but

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in a, I'm here for it. I'm ready to create my life, my

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reality, my, my version of joy, bliss, whatever

Beth Hewitt: 00:08:17

that is that you're trying to bring in exactly. For

Melissa Amos: 00:08:20

me, I don't think the universe has a plan for us. I think that the

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universe supports our plans, and many of us walk around

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without really a clear plan. And even the whole manifestation

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conversation is often about, well, what can you manifest? Go and get

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the things. And it's not for me. And it was about that in the beginning.

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I was like, oh, this is cool, and this is brilliant. And then actually what

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happened with me is I didn't feel safe. I started on the manifestation route, and

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then I didn't feel safe from my own thoughts. I thought my own thoughts

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are tripping me up. And because, you know, we all have those

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things going on. We all have the, what if this

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happens? Or the Brenda, I don't know. I call it Brenda. The

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Brenda voice sitting in my head telling me,

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like, what are you doing? You don't want to do this? And what if this

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happens? And, oh, blah. And I started to become afraid of

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that because as I begin to realize my own power,

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that I could manifest actual, real things, physical

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things, which didn't have an explanation to that. Then

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when intrusive thought came in,

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like being underground in San Francisco and

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wondering, oh, what if there was an earthquake now? And I genuinely thought

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I was about to, like, everyone around me was all going to

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drown in a thing because I had that thought. That's not feeling

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safe. And so it led me on this journey

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of discovery of, okay, what does it mean? And how does vibration work

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and how does energetics work? And then later on, how does

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this spirit connection work? So I started then getting into

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mediumship and I was like, this is amazing. I can contact the dead.

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I am having information, this is amazing. And it was great.

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And then one day I had that thought of, oh, but what if the

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man comes in and he's not very nice? And somebody said to me, oh, aren't

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you protecting yourself? And aren't you doing this? And I was like, and then the

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experience began to change. And so

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I think that this new wave of healers, readers,

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spiritually conscious, opening up, we are all

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energetic, whether we're aware of it or not, as we come into our

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awareness of it, I think our job is, okay, how can I create the

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best parameters? Again, not in a controlly way,

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but in an empowering way, how do I create those best parameters so

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that I know that what I am attracting into me, I

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know what I'm receiving into me, I know what guidance that's coming into me is

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actually leading me into my highest and greatest good.

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And I can't give you a simple answer,

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but that's what my work is about. So I think it's important

Beth Hewitt: 00:10:56

to have that idea of what you do want,

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rather than just receiving or wanting

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messages to land to support you on your path.

Beth Hewitt: 00:11:07

What is it that you actually want? Are you clear on that? And then this

Melissa Amos: 00:11:11

comes back into the know thyself. And this is why your

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work's so powerful, because you're not just saying, oh, what do you want? Oh, I

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want the job, or the car, or the bananas or whatever. You're

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really getting them to feel into it. And sometimes when we're in that.

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I was speaking about this at an event I was at the other day. We

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might think we want the Ferrari and we think that I'm going to manifest the

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Ferrari. And I believe that you could manifest the Ferrari and the universe will

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start to bring it to you. However, if you like, if I

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went into, okay, do I want a Ferrari? How would I

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feel having a Ferrari? Yeah, I might feel like I'm in my lovely

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car, but also I wouldn't feel safe. I'd be like, everyone's looking

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at me, people are making comments when I park the car. I'm going to

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want to get the biggest space in the world, and that's really stressful. I can't

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just nip it in every time there's a, I don't know,

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a lorry in front of me, I might think that something's going to drop in

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it or someone's going to ding my car or someone might come and key it.

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And that isn't the life I want to live. For me, it's about ease and

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flow and safety and being. Feeling this

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grounded, connected, protected. And the Ferrari, however much I

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would want it, which I don't really, but if I did,

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if it doesn't fit in with that. Yeah. If it doesn't fit in with that

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lifestyle, the universe now has two things going

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on. Yeah. Now could I do the work on myself? So I do feel safe

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having the Ferrari, probably. But right now, where I am, those two

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things are so disjointed

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that I'm glad that one never appeared on my driveway.

Beth Hewitt: 00:12:44

Yeah. And I think this happens all the time, isn't it? This is

Beth Hewitt: 00:12:48

misalignment. There's something going on in the subconscious that is

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counter to the thing that we think we want. I want to be a

Beth Hewitt: 00:12:55

successful businesswoman. My family might not like me anymore, whatever that is.

Beth Hewitt: 00:12:59

There's all of these things. I want to be in a loving relationship. I always

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get hurt. There's always these mixed messages going on all the time.

Beth Hewitt: 00:13:06

And I think sitting down and thinking about what it is that

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you want. And then also knowing

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these beliefs that we hold is a really powerful thing to

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go through. But we have to set that time. We have to do that. We

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have to identify what that is. And sometimes we might

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realize during that process that the Ferrari isn't the thing

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that we actually do want. I've been thinking more and more. I've always seen myself

Beth Hewitt: 00:13:31

as somebody who's been quite ambitious, but lately I've been like, I just think I'll

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enjoy being a mum. And I just think I want to be a grandma

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and just knit. And these are the things now I'm thinking. I'm

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thinking, like, I'm really happy with my life now. And

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that's. I feel like that's enough right now. And these

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ambitious feelings and thoughts that I had in my twenties, I'm now

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thinking I can still have all of these nice things, but I'm more

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comfortable and happy. I just love being family is more

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important to me than a mansion. And I think we. I

Beth Hewitt: 00:14:05

don't know, sometimes I think I feel like people are striving for things and is

Beth Hewitt: 00:14:08

it actually what they want? If you thought about. I heard

Melissa Amos: 00:14:12

this once, I can't remember what I was listening to. Some podcast or another,

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probably, and they said something like, if there was no people left in the world,

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would you still want the car that you drive

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and the house that you think no people, if there was no one

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judging, you wouldn't want the big mansion, would you? Or would

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you like, just go and pick the nice, perfectly

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sized. This is just a manageable garden and

Beth Hewitt: 00:14:39

the nice neighbors and a clean that. You don't have to pay

Melissa Amos: 00:14:42

500 pounds a week for because she's got so many things.

Melissa Amos: 00:14:45

And it is really interesting. And I was thinking, still drive the car

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I want. Because the car I love is I'm a car

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person. I've grown up with it. It's comfy and it's safe and it's. And it's

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a little bit sexy too. But there's a lot of things. It put things in

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perspective. Would I. Do I need all of these things? Why are we making this

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choice? And this doesn't mean you can't have nice

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things. It doesn't. And sometimes we want nice things

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and I think that we deserve to have nice things. And

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I think part of the human experience is so that we can

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feel luxury and the sensuality and all of

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these emotions and sensations. But

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if we really get honest with ourselves about maybe I

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don't want more. And in the business world, it's a real trap.

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In the business world we can be like, oh, okay, I'm here. I was

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talking to my coach about this the other day. I said I am where

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I wanted to be. I'm actually further along where I wanted to be. And then

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the year before, I was further along than where I wanted to be. Does that

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mean that I need to want more now? Yeah. No,

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it doesn't. Especially in the business world. It's all

Beth Hewitt: 00:15:55

scaling and six k years, seven k years, how to

Beth Hewitt: 00:15:59

do this, how to do that and. Yeah, is it actually what you want? Because

Beth Hewitt: 00:16:02

with that comes lots of other things. Responsibilities and builds and

Beth Hewitt: 00:16:07

teams and automations and all of that. I actually think that when we

Beth Hewitt: 00:16:11

stop striving, I'm not saying don't have a vision because

Beth Hewitt: 00:16:14

obviously that's the world that I'm in. Don't have something that you want to go

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for. But I think when you take the pressure off, the need to

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strive, you actually make it easier to have more nice things because you're

Beth Hewitt: 00:16:25

no longer in that energy of, I need to reach

Beth Hewitt: 00:16:29

this next milestone. I need to do all of the things, oh, it's not happening.

Beth Hewitt: 00:16:32

So now I need to work even harder to get this. When we take the

Beth Hewitt: 00:16:36

pressure off and go, actually, I'm really happy right now with where I'm at, with

Beth Hewitt: 00:16:40

my life, with the balance, with the income, with my family,

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with the things that bring me joy. I'm really happy. I can just experience

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and experience more of this and being in that space

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of just having full gratitude and appreciation for all of that.

Beth Hewitt: 00:16:56

Where you are right now in the present, you attract more of that nice stuff,

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and sometimes that's an upgrade, just naturally the new car

Beth Hewitt: 00:17:03

or the new house, but it's not. I need

Beth Hewitt: 00:17:06

to reach a million pounds before I can have the mansion. It's a

Beth Hewitt: 00:17:10

different energy, it's a different space, and

Beth Hewitt: 00:17:16

I don't know where it is. I think we're just raised on this

Beth Hewitt: 00:17:21

energy of, you have to do your best, you have to get good

Beth Hewitt: 00:17:24

grades, you have to go to university, you have to have the nice house. You

Beth Hewitt: 00:17:28

need to keep up with the Joneses that we forget to

Beth Hewitt: 00:17:32

check in with us. What do we want? Yes,

Beth Hewitt: 00:17:36

what do we want? It's an

Melissa Amos: 00:17:39

interesting concept. If we start to think about, am I

Melissa Amos: 00:17:42

manifesting from the space of fear? I want to have this

Melissa Amos: 00:17:46

because that's what they do. I need to have this so that I am

Melissa Amos: 00:17:50

comfortable in my retirement, because I don't want to run out of money. I need

Melissa Amos: 00:17:53

to have this so that I can pay my bills if something happens,

Melissa Amos: 00:17:57

or blah, blah, blah, I need to make more, because what if this

Melissa Amos: 00:18:00

stops? What if there's tomorrow? What if nobody wants to

Melissa Amos: 00:18:04

buy my things or my employer tells me I'm not employed anymore or whatever?

Melissa Amos: 00:18:08

I need to have this car because then people

Melissa Amos: 00:18:11

will respect me. All of that is really coming from this

Melissa Amos: 00:18:15

fear based. It's coming from lack,

Melissa Amos: 00:18:18

right? Which is fine, and it

Melissa Amos: 00:18:22

works. But if we're feeling that sense of lack and

Melissa Amos: 00:18:26

even lack of connection to my spirit team, I'm feeling that sense of lack in

Melissa Amos: 00:18:30

any way. It's important to notice that and go, okay, that's interesting, that this

Melissa Amos: 00:18:33

fearsome happening. Because if I believe in the law of attraction,

Melissa Amos: 00:18:37

then I do believe that we live in an abundant world and that there's everything

Melissa Amos: 00:18:41

available to us. And now we've identified this discord.

Melissa Amos: 00:18:44

Okay, I believe that, but I don't really believe that because I'm manifesting

Melissa Amos: 00:18:48

from this. And so then our job is to begin to bring the

Melissa Amos: 00:18:52

healing and the understanding, and where did that programming come from and where

Melissa Amos: 00:18:56

did I find that belief? What makes me think that I can't have this and

Melissa Amos: 00:18:59

this, or it has to be this or this, and we can start

Melissa Amos: 00:19:03

this self inquiry. This is that. Know thyself again. Because

Melissa Amos: 00:19:07

when we manifest from a sense of

Melissa Amos: 00:19:10

abundance, of joy, of what's possible,

Melissa Amos: 00:19:14

of sense of safety, from a sense of

Melissa Amos: 00:19:18

inspired thought, then nothing's going to stop us.

Melissa Amos: 00:19:21

I think what happens for many of us now I want to say this, the

Melissa Amos: 00:19:25

fear is a good thing because I think what happens for many of us, we

Melissa Amos: 00:19:27

get this inspired thought and we're like, oh,

Melissa Amos: 00:19:31

look at what is possible. I can go and do that. And we start

Melissa Amos: 00:19:35

to take the steps forward and then suddenly all the things that are stopping you

Melissa Amos: 00:19:39

moving there, the law of attraction is working with you going, you do not feel

Melissa Amos: 00:19:42

safe to do that. You can't do that. If you get here without

Melissa Amos: 00:19:46

sorting this out, then you're just not bad things going to happen.

Melissa Amos: 00:19:49

But you're going to have to deal with this at some point. And now you're

Melissa Amos: 00:19:53

moving forward. If you're in your comfort zone, the fear thing will

Melissa Amos: 00:19:56

never have come up. I move two, three steps forward, bang.

Melissa Amos: 00:20:00

Oh, my God. What if everyone comes and takes your money away from you? Or

Melissa Amos: 00:20:03

what if. Or, well, I need to make sure that, blah, blah, blah. I

Melissa Amos: 00:20:07

need to now scale from six k months to ten k months to

Melissa Amos: 00:20:10

20k months to 6 million months. I need to do that. When that

Melissa Amos: 00:20:14

comes up, then it's our job, okay? How do I regulate? How do I understand

Melissa Amos: 00:20:18

myself? What's really going on here? What are my intentions? What is it that

Melissa Amos: 00:20:22

I want to really receive? And then you're in

Melissa Amos: 00:20:25

this path of least resistance. Then you don't have the bungee rope

Melissa Amos: 00:20:29

all knotted up behind you going, you can

Melissa Amos: 00:20:33

go this far, but not too far because your family will

Melissa Amos: 00:20:37

reject you or you'll be too big for your boots or everyone

Melissa Amos: 00:20:40

will come and expect things from you or your partner will

Melissa Amos: 00:20:44

leave you or whatever it is. Don't ignore it.

Melissa Amos: 00:20:48

By ignoring it, you're not high vibing your way out of it, you're just

Melissa Amos: 00:20:51

keeping the bungee rope tight. Yeah,

Beth Hewitt: 00:20:56

I think as well, consistency with that. I think

Beth Hewitt: 00:20:59

sometimes we're onto a good thing, especially in business. You

Beth Hewitt: 00:21:03

might achieve something, you might have a, you know, massive success,

Beth Hewitt: 00:21:07

and then all of a sudden you think, right now I need the next thing,

Beth Hewitt: 00:21:10

a new thing. I need to evolve into something else,

Beth Hewitt: 00:21:14

3.0 version of what I've just done, when

Beth Hewitt: 00:21:17

it's actually just enjoy what has just

Beth Hewitt: 00:21:21

happened and create some level of consistency around it.

Beth Hewitt: 00:21:25

If it worked and you enjoyed it and it was easy and there wasn't any

Beth Hewitt: 00:21:28

resistance, then why would you not want to do

Beth Hewitt: 00:21:32

more of that? And you can still tweak it. We naturally evolve

Beth Hewitt: 00:21:36

anyway, like you were saying right at the beginning, the first time you did your

Beth Hewitt: 00:21:38

challenge, it was a very, even though it was the same challenge, I'm

Beth Hewitt: 00:21:42

sure you've changed it as you've been going along, but even though the premise of

Beth Hewitt: 00:21:45

it is the same, we have naturally

Beth Hewitt: 00:21:49

evolved. You have naturally evolved just by going

Beth Hewitt: 00:21:52

through the motions a number of times and having that level of consistency. You're better

Beth Hewitt: 00:21:56

at what you do today because you've gone through those different

Beth Hewitt: 00:22:00

iterations, but you've stuck to the same message. And I think sometimes we're

Beth Hewitt: 00:22:03

so keen to just throw the baby out with the bathwater

Beth Hewitt: 00:22:07

and start something completely new

Beth Hewitt: 00:22:11

when actually we don't always need to

Beth Hewitt: 00:22:14

be striving for something so

Beth Hewitt: 00:22:18

different we can use and take

Beth Hewitt: 00:22:22

the same messages again. It's good to change, it's good

Beth Hewitt: 00:22:25

to shake things up. But there's also something that comes with a level of

Beth Hewitt: 00:22:29

consistency. When you look at anything that we do consistently,

Beth Hewitt: 00:22:34

we have that snowball compound

Beth Hewitt: 00:22:37

effect and it is by its very nature

Beth Hewitt: 00:22:40

different because we're different. We've evolved, the practice has evolved. We've got

Beth Hewitt: 00:22:44

better at what we're doing. This works. So now I'm just going to keep on

Melissa Amos: 00:22:47

doing this and I can't change anything. And that is coming from this.

Melissa Amos: 00:22:51

Control energy. Control energy

Melissa Amos: 00:22:54

isn't. It comes from lack. I need to do everything because

Melissa Amos: 00:22:58

I don't trust that the universe is going to help me grow and help me

Melissa Amos: 00:23:02

expand. And if something comes and throws

Melissa Amos: 00:23:05

itself in my way, it means

Melissa Amos: 00:23:09

I shouldn't be doing this or I'm not good enough or there we go. It

Melissa Amos: 00:23:12

proved my point. My feeling is the universe doesn't work this

Melissa Amos: 00:23:16

way. And this comes back to how safe do I feel in my

Melissa Amos: 00:23:20

connection and my growth and my evolution. I'm never going to evolve if you don't

Melissa Amos: 00:23:24

feel safe in who you are or who you're

Melissa Amos: 00:23:27

becoming. And so there's a huge conversation around that.

Melissa Amos: 00:23:31

But if we start with this, this is what I was saying in the practice

Melissa Amos: 00:23:35

group, we've done a lot of work this week and they're like, they're very intense

Melissa Amos: 00:23:38

because we're there every day and we're doing these tasks and we're growing and we're

Melissa Amos: 00:23:41

growing and it's. You didn't get to the end here and now I'm going to

Melissa Amos: 00:23:44

give you a certificate of life going, there we go. Hit your

Melissa Amos: 00:23:48

connection. Your higher self is now your bestie buddy.

Melissa Amos: 00:23:52

And this is. You don't need to. That's it. Like the graduation. Yeah.

Melissa Amos: 00:23:57

No, it's this consistency and this persistency. How

Melissa Amos: 00:24:00

do I keep on going even when it's tough, or how do I keep

Melissa Amos: 00:24:04

on going even when it's easy? Because then we're like, oh, life is great, I'm

Melissa Amos: 00:24:07

stopped. No, we need. It's a practice. All of this manifestation is

Melissa Amos: 00:24:11

a practice. You're cultivating. Peace is a practice.

Melissa Amos: 00:24:14

Feeling safe in your body is a practice. And why is it called a

Melissa Amos: 00:24:18

practice? Because you've got to practice it. You can't just do it while you

Melissa Amos: 00:24:22

can't go on the retreat. I'm buzzing. And

Melissa Amos: 00:24:26

then never do any work again. Yeah,

Beth Hewitt: 00:24:29

unfortunately. Yeah, unfortunately. That would be nice, wouldn't it?

Melissa Amos: 00:24:33

Right Uniruv. I've done the work. I went on the course. Look at how much

Melissa Amos: 00:24:37

money I paid. I've got this, like, image of like a british

Beth Hewitt: 00:24:40

gas when they come out and service the boilers. You don't need to do any

Beth Hewitt: 00:24:43

work anymore because, like, the spiritual serviceman's going to come out and just check that

Beth Hewitt: 00:24:47

you're at the right levels. Like, your intuition and your connection is just. You're all

Beth Hewitt: 00:24:51

dialed in. I have this, I work with a

Melissa Amos: 00:24:54

Shaolin master, and he really does push me.

Melissa Amos: 00:24:58

And we've had a bit of a break for a while because he needs to

Melissa Amos: 00:25:00

go off and do it on his own. And I saw him yesterday and we

Melissa Amos: 00:25:04

were talking about this exact thing, and I was like,

Melissa Amos: 00:25:07

because he gave me some practices to do and I was doing the practices, but

Melissa Amos: 00:25:11

these aren't like immediate result things. These are the tasks that you do

Melissa Amos: 00:25:14

something. Oh, wow. I've got these energetic kind of

Melissa Amos: 00:25:17

these things and I was doing them very well and then wasn't seeing

Melissa Amos: 00:25:21

massive changes. And I was like, I don't know what I was expecting, like some

Melissa Amos: 00:25:25

certificate to come down from heaven

Melissa Amos: 00:25:29

being fireworks and celebrations. He said

Melissa Amos: 00:25:33

to me, I can write you a certificate if you want.

Melissa Amos: 00:25:40

I just need, I just. For me, I just needed that.

Melissa Amos: 00:25:44

I think it was August last time I saw him. I was like, I just

Melissa Amos: 00:25:47

needed that revisit so that I know

Melissa Amos: 00:25:51

where I am. And then I could see, see when I let that practice

Melissa Amos: 00:25:55

fall, how I started to slip back and I could see

Melissa Amos: 00:25:59

it very clearly, whereas where I was seeing him consistently,

Melissa Amos: 00:26:02

I could see the upward and sometimes downward, but mainly

Melissa Amos: 00:26:06

the upward growth. And that was a big realization for me

Melissa Amos: 00:26:10

yesterday, that I do the work,

Melissa Amos: 00:26:14

but it's the work I'm resisting and I do.

Beth Hewitt: 00:26:18

Yeah. The work I'm resisting that needs the

Melissa Amos: 00:26:22

persistence. I love that. And I love that you had that

Beth Hewitt: 00:26:25

conversation yesterday as well. So everyone who's listening, this

Melissa Amos: 00:26:29

is your job. We find a practice. Start with one that you love

Melissa Amos: 00:26:33

or that you enjoy or that, you know works or that, you know, your

Melissa Amos: 00:26:36

mentor or whatever. There's plenty of practices that Beth

Melissa Amos: 00:26:40

and I can share with you and start

Melissa Amos: 00:26:44

it. And when it gets too hard or difficult or something comes up, that's

Melissa Amos: 00:26:48

not the universe telling you to stop, that the universe is saying to

Melissa Amos: 00:26:51

you, here we go. Well done. You've got this far. Now

Melissa Amos: 00:26:56

you're strong enough to work with this thing that's come up and work with it

Melissa Amos: 00:27:00

and just keep coming back to do I

Melissa Amos: 00:27:03

feel safe? And your body will tell you straight away whether you feel

Melissa Amos: 00:27:07

safe in that or not. Love that. Good advice. Okay,

Beth Hewitt: 00:27:11

Mel, until next time. Until next time. Have a super

Melissa Amos: 00:27:15

day.